Pho No!

Scott wrote this at around evening time:

My favorite place for Pho seems to have closed, so now I have to find somewhere else to go. They did finally get the grand opening sign taken down, I’d kind of been wondering when they’d stop being newly opened. I just didn’t expect that it would be at the same time they closed down to be replaced by a mexican restaurant (coming soon) of some sort.

Now, on the Liz situation, I think we’ve come to some sort of understanding. At this point, we’re just going to keep in touch and get to know eachother better, and then make some decisions in a year or so. My personal goals for the immediate future are to see if I can talk her into occasionally being online while not at work so I can talk to her while not at work myself, and I should probably learn her last name at some point. I’m assuming that she has one.

It’s never easy

Scott wrote this at around evening time:

So, before I left, I thought, “Hey, I’ll have my mail held at the post office so it doesn’t build up in my mail box. Sometimes I’ve gotten notes from my letter carrier about needing to empty it when I go away on vacation and it builds up. So, I’ll have it held and resumed on Saturday so that it’s all there on Sunday when I get back.”

So, it’s now the following Thursday, and after several phone calls about the matter, I still have no mail. The post office is pretty sure I’ll get my mail tomorrow. Then again, they were also pretty sure that I would have it today.

Ok, now that that is out of the way, what I really wanted to write about.

So, I got a message from Melody indicating that Alaskan Cabin-mate Liz was suprised that I do not have a girlfriend, and would be intersted in filling that roll. Now this catches me a little off guard. Not to say I’m not a bit interested myself; once I got past some, possibly, unbased concern over the status of keys to our shared cabin, I really enjoyed spending time around a spirited midwestern girl. And…well…quite frankly, I’m in my 20′s and there is a female sleeping a few feet away, it would be unlikely that I wouldn’t entertain a few fantasies.

I think we should just ignore, for the time being, that two other people satisified those criteria. There’s a limit in the Truthfullness vs Being Kicked Very Hard ratio that I’m just not willing to cross at this point. Particularly when the I’m Going To Neet Advice/Support modifier is added.

So, the pluses, mutal interest and distance. This might be one of the rare occasions where distance is good. It would force things to develop a bit more slowly, which is really what I need since for me it’s all going to be guessing and hoping for the best (and as we know, I have the magical ability to guess the wrong choice in a suspiciously consitent manner).

The minuses, distance. Chicago is a long way. I don’t know if I really want a relationship where the vast majority of the time it’s going to be phone calls (which I’m horrible at). I really want someting I can see and touch to know it’s real.

I guess in the end, I’m stuck at hoping that it works out, but not really believing in it being anyting more than what amounts to practice. Which I do need, but I don’t want to use anyone in that way.

And don’t even get me started on the possiblilites of her wanting to read my blog someday. I really don’t want to think about that outcome right now.

Well, at least I’m home safe, right?

Scott wrote this around lunchtime:

Yesterday was a day of travel, and like most days of travel for me, it had its share of problems. And not the ordinary “hydroplaning on the highway” kind of problems. Things leaned more towards the “Ok, Alaska, you prominently refer to your visitors that you only a very limited number of highways, so, maybe you could put an exit off of one of them for the airport? Or perhaps a sign saying where to exit to reach International Airport Road? I can see the street sign for from the highway, so obviously the highway passes fairly close.”

The airport in general wasn’t too bad, possibly some extra people at the baggage checkin would have been helpful so that it wasn’t two stations for every one person working, but it didn’t take too long, and the flight left more or less on time.

And since I didn’t have to change planes (cue beginning of quiet yet slightly ominous music) at my stop over, for once, there wasn’t much concern of missing my connection, or losing my luggage. After reboarding the plane, the pilot announced that an actuator was stuck, so the mechanics were adding fluid to it, and it should start moving in a few minutes (ominous music gets louder). 20 mintues later, the next announcement indicates another 20 minutes and it should be repaired. At this point, the pilot and co-pilot exit the plane (Increasingly ominous music). 20 minutes later, a flight attendent announces that we will be disembarking the plane, and they will try to find us a different one.

After a half hour or so, they find us one, and we head out to a different terminal, where we kick some people off of their gate and seize it as our own and paint the Republic of Alaskan Flight 92 flag on the wall, as we are starting to feel very unified and family-like. We do, however, get to board the plane at some point. And wait, and wait, and wait a little more for our baggage to make its way to the new plane. We don’t want to lose it after-all.

At last, about 2.5 hours delayed, which isn’t too bad really, we push back from the gate and begin our journey, and perhaps the pilot is a bit too eager, as there is a squealing noise everytime the plane takes a corner. Probably just the brakes were a bit worn though.

We arrive at LAX, and a group trying to make a Quantas connection are stacked up at the front of the plane to try to make the sprint as soon as the door is opened. The rest of us go about our business. I personally head to down to the baggage claim. Where people are stacked about 5 deep around the claim watching the baggage from at least 4 flights pop out at around 1 bag every 15 seconds.

At long last, my luggage comes out. In a somewhat more extended form than I remember it going in as. So, I scoop up some lose pieces and try to take an inventory of what should be in a bag, vs what is in the bag. At that point, it appears that only 5 of 6 bottles of water have fallen out and did not come through the baggage handling system and that the sheet packed at the top of the bag held most things in.

The final inventory post-unpacking shows the loss of my rain suit pants and associated bag they were stuffed in, and the pants and shirt that I had slept in the night before. With the pants and shirt, there is an equal chance that they fell out or that I left them in the bathroom after changing in the morning. I’m pretty sure the pants were packed though, since I never unpacked them.

I’m glad I took today off too though, since I slept in until 10, and should really start on the laundry for those things that did come back.

Geek Love, Continued?

Scott wrote this mid-morning:

Last night, it was once again time for a “Wish someone departing the company well” party. Alcohol, pool, and women who go into pole-dancing mode in response to the first of those, the usual stuff. Anyways, out of no where, or more precisely La Jolla, Heidi showed up. So, let’s play, once again, The Words in Scott’s Head, or as it is more commonly known “That boy ain’t right”

*That’s Heidi. What’s she doing here? So, it wasn’t just drunk talk when she said she would still come up when we go out?*

*I knew I should have moved down to that end of the couch, now I can only barely make out what she’s saying*

*Woo! she recalled that I had emailed her about the last outing, and supplied a reason why she couldn’t be there. Now, if only she’d actually responded to the email, so I didn’t have to wait two months to find out*

-Begin Intense Focused Hour of Pool-

*Why don’t to go where I want you to go?*

-End Intense Focused Hour of Pool-

*Oh No! Someone asked about her boyfriend*

*Oh K! Not a boyfriend, just someone she’s been dating, as she only sees him once a week, so he can’t be a boyfriend in her mind*

Words out of my mouth: “So how many times do I need to come down there a week.”

Words out of my boss-squared’s mouth: I really can’t recall, but the general sense was that I’m available and a good listener.

*Updating to Heidi Definition of Boyfriend: See at least 3 times a week, and can call when you want to talk*

*I wish this place was less noisy so I could tell what she’s saying to Kris, I can tell it’s about relationships, and it’s probably important* Note: I was sitting on the stool on one side of her and Kris on the other, and was part of the conversation, it’s not really creepy evesdropping, and the general consensus came out to be that no one really wanted to discuss their situations.

Ok, so maybe I did, but not in that specific circumstance.

Anyways, the remainder of her time there was mosly saying goodbye to people.

No kiss this time, but I did get a hug.